Couples in
a three way life are open enough about it, but most of them often keep it a secret because they don’t want to be known
living a swing lifestyle by others. They just want to avoid a lot of trouble in this way, especially after they have children. If you are in a relationship with a couple as the third wheel, you have to zip your mouth about it to anyone, including your family or best friends. If you can't do that, then you're likely to not only destroy your relationship, but cause something worse to happen. Remember, do not tell other people if you don’t have your partner’s permission.
